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Playing Sex Roulette and BDSM Games
You never know exactly what you are going to get when you start a new relationship with someone. Those who are involved in the alternative lifestyle will likely agree that the BDSM scene is like a game of sex roulette. You don't usually know exactly how things will go with any particular person, especially when you don't know him or her very well. It is highly recommended that people discuss all desired activities prior to participating in a bondage or domination session. Safe words are always good to have so that if things get to be too intense the activity can be stopped.
I have a unique perspective on a lot of things in BDSM because I have been active in the scene for fifteen years now. After being a submissive for six years I switched and began my journey as a dominant. I discovered that I loved my new role and ever since have mainly assumed the domme role in BDSM and fetish sex. Yes, it is true, I'm a fem Domme who was once a slave owned by a Master for six years. After the relationship ended, I discovered that I enjoyed domination very much and eventually crossed over almost completely. Being mainly a dominatrix, I very rarely will submit to anyone now as it almost never feels right to me. For the past eleven years most of my relationships have been with submissive men. I have also been a pro- domme for ten years.
I recall how it all started. In my experience, there were first the simple things in bdsm: the whips, crops, canes, wax, clothing pins. Then there was the submission
to my Master. He wanted me to be the perfect cock sucking slut who would take it anywhere at any time from anyone for him.
He wanted me to be the only woman who served him and he alone. From grooming to cooking, cleaning, laundry, womanly things, daily activities and such, I was requested to do it all. I did not have any issues with doing these things, because I was a submissive who cherished him and would do anything for him.
Those were the simple years, when I had no reason to question or to ask why. I understood and accepted my position. The communication between us was fantastic. I did not have to hide my private thoughts. We discussed everything openly and it was a very comfortable relationship. In today's world, many times people forget to talk about things. They take things and each other for granted, often waking up one day to find that their relationship is over. In a BDSM or any type of relationship, communication is essential to success and the satisfaction of all partners. Limits need to be established and respected. A person who does not respect limits jeapordizes not only the relationship itself but quite possibly also the safety of his or her partners. Be responsible and don't let an unwilling victim get hurt.
Besides providing domination sessions both real time and on the phone, I also make a living helping others in the BDSM scene and giving out helpful advice and creative ideas. Women and men both often consult with me for information relating to BDSM and fetishes, as well as advice concerning their relationships. Having a true knowledge and understanding of both sides of domination and submission allows me to see things from both perspectives very well, and nothing shocks me. I also worked in the medical field for a number of years. Knowledge and experience is what I bring to the table. Those who seek bdsm advice, domination therapy services, slave training, relationship advice, Mistress/Master training or assistance with any other fetish related issues are welcome to contact me or any of the resident Mistresses on my site at any time. ~ Madam
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